WHAT'S THE RIGHT WAY TO SAY 'NO' TO RETALIATION?

It was a hurt.. Quite deep..

The person in picture became instantly angry and retaliation was on cards. But something within cautioned him..

"You were careless all these days and made your defences weak. If you retaliate in such a scenario, do you feel, you can safely come out as a winner?"

"Then, what is the way of winning in the situation?"

The person questioned back..

"Suppose, you don't win here?"

"Then I am a coward!"

"You mean, you are brave, if you win?"

"Yes.. Sure!"

"Why not I say, you are weak?"

"Is fighting for right, a weakness?"

"No it's more than bravery!"

"Then?"

Have you planned before you fight or are you just reacting to the hurt you experienced?"

"Ok.. It's reaction to the hurt!"

"That reaction ever misguides you. Why not plan now to fight and win?"

"What is that plan like?"

• "Be generous in parting, to fight GREED in you which indirectly made you get hurt presently..

• Be questioning yourself, to overcome DELUSION in you which indirectly made you get hurt presently..

• Limit yourself, to check DESIRE in you which indirectly made you get hurt presently..

• Start serving, to limit PRIDE in you which indirectly made you get hurt presently..

• Stop comparing, to reduce JEALOUSY in you which indirectly made you get hurt presently..

Thus start your true planning from this moment and continue thus endlessly, Peace stays next to you 100% sure!"

"Ok.. Sure, I'll do and thanks for the good advice. By the way, can I know who You are in me taking so much care of me from falling down?"

"That finding is the Ultimate Goal of yours on this earth!"

Keyword: RETALIATION

THE ENDLESS STORY!

The person decided..

"I don't want.. I say, I don't want.. Not at all.. Whatever the situation may lure me.. I said, don't want.. Yes!"

In some time.. 

"What? Is there a benefit? Ok.. Got it.. But still.. It's all right.. You are pressurizing so much.. I go for it!"

The person said in a soft tone..

That's how desire prompts human being..

The person decided..

"I'll call my people 3 times.  If they respond, it's nice else I keep quite!"

He called 3 times and none responded..

"See, 3 times I called.. They didn't respond.. What type of people I have?"

The person fumed..

That's how anger topples down human being..

The person decided..

"It's a small amount and even if one says I shouldn't go for it as I am not eligible to receive it, it does no harm to my personality!"

The time came, a similar situation was in front..

"Is there any money here, I got last time for similar work?"

The person thought within..

That's how greed lures human being..

"Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is in distance, today is very much in front.. Work, have money, Expand and enjoy.. Nothing else is worth doing in this life!"

The person screamed..

That's how illusion works in human being..

The person decided..

"I remain calm even if  these people praise me on and on.. It's that simple!"

Next time,

"Guess, they are waiting to praise me this time more. Let me go there in time. Other works can wait!"

The person expected..

That's how pride rules human being..

The person decided,

"I don't bother for the result. Let me take what comes!"

The result came and he was 3rd..

"I did more than last time. But this time they put me as 3rd..

What extra these 2 great people of 1st and 2nd have done?  Sheer nonsense!"

The person murmured aloud..

That's how jealousy strikes human being..

Keywords: ENDLESS, STORY

SURE, THE GOOD SPIRIT GAVE WITHOUT ASKING!

That day in early morning hrs being a holiday, the gentleman decided to spend sometime doing gardening in his backyard. Accordingly, as he stepped out, he found a mysterious box.. 

Instantly, he was astonished but quickly took care of it, brought it inside and kept it on his table. Initially he was reluctant to open the box but curiosity in no time overruled him and closing doors, he offered a Prayer to God, held the box in his left hand and slowly opened it with right..

"I'm here to satisfy one boon of yours!"

Saying, the Good Spirit appeared in front of him..

Instantly his mind lured him.. 

"Ask something!"

But his Consciousness clarified,

"Anything you get without working for it, is never yours!"

The Good Spirit was looking at him..

His dilemma continued between 'Ask' or 'Not Ask' for a while but soon 'Not Ask' won..

"I am provided with many by the Grace of God. If I ask something, that remains a free entity with me. I should work and earn only, if I want anything!"

Firming up thus, he closed the box double firmly..

Strangely the next moment, he found one Entity was given to him by the Good Spirit in spite of not asking..

INSTANT PEACE OF MIND!

Keyword: PEACE

THE WISE DECISION!

"This life for enjoyment, enjoyment and enjoyment alone everywhere, nothing more. I decided.. Let me expand and enjoy 100% in my life!" 

One screamed aloud..

Illusion laughed aloud with desire, anger, greed, pride, jealousy readying themselves for timely attack and Reality bent down it's head..

"This life for containment, containment and containment alone everywhere, nothing less. I decided.. Let me be attentive and restrain 100% in my life!"

The 2nd one asserted beyond..

Again, illusion laughed aloud with desire, anger, greed, pride, jealousy readying themselves for timely attack and Reality bent down it's head..

"This life for enjoyment, containment, enjoyment, containment and enjoyment, containment everywhere as much. My humble decision is.. Let me enjoy moderate and equally let me restrain myself and thus continue this life in front!"

The 3rd one said with a smile..

Instantly, illusion became silent along with desire, anger, greed, pride jealousy and Reality rose to the occasion!

Keywords: WISE, DECISION

SWEET TIME!

The Coffee Shop had few customers. The gentleman sat in one of the seats and was waiting for family who went for shopping to return..

"Coffee is costly here.  When my family returns, we'll have it at.... which is cheaper!"

He thought.. 

Half hr passed. The Coffee Shop became empty with nil customers. The gentleman felt uneasy feeling within,

"The Coffee Shop is empty. I am the only person sitting here. The person at the Counter may expect me place order.  Better I get up and walk few rounds and by that time the shop may get some customers!"

He thus decided, got up from there and made few rounds for 15 mts. On the last round he found few customers stepped into the shop. The gentleman felt comfortable and once again sat in a corner of the Coffee Shop..

Half hr passed. The customers started pouring in non stop. Soon all seats were full. The gentleman again felt uneasy..

"The Coffee Shop is full now. If one more customer steps in he/she will have no seat.  Better I get up and walk few rounds and by that time few customers may leave!"

He thus decided, got up from there and made  few rounds for 15 mts. On the last round he found few customers stepped out of the shop. The gentleman felt comfortable and once again sat in a corner of the shop..

Half hr passed. The customers poured in non stop. Soon all seats were nearing full. The gentleman, instead of feeling uneasy at that point of time, felt great ease, called the family on phone and relaxed beyond waiting for the family as it was..

COFFEE TIME!!!

Keyword: COFFEE

SURE MONEY MATTERS!

3 persons on a day, visited the near by Ashram, bowed to the Head of the Ashram and queried on the best way of dealing with one's finances..

The Head smiled and said,

"Suppose I give you some finances, how do you deal with them?"

The 1st person said,

"I spend necessary, give in charity the pre planned percentage and save the remaining!"

The 2nd one said,

"I spend necessary, save necessary and give in charity the remaining!"

The 3rd one said,

"I spend necessary, save necessary, try giving in charity the preplanned percentage if available adding back to savings the left out or give the remaining only to charity!"

The 1st and 2nd persons for a while, couldn't understand what the 3rd person said..

"The 3rd one's way is the right way!"

Said the Head and continued..

"Taking care of self is a tricky thing in our life. You can't deny your self as your self is a fact. So taking care of one's self is the primary duty with a person; taking care of others stands next..

But that should never take one to total selfishness as self elevation too is the duty with human being. And that self elevates when one takes care of his next person in need..

This too is again tricky as allowing every one to take care of himself/herself too should prevail max.

So the decision where to help and where to allow one to help self always remains with the individual and one who does this diligently paying attention every moment has done,

His/her duty on earth in the right way; doubtless!

Keyword: finances

THE UNDERESTIMATED POWER OF ARISHADVARGAS!

6 people together on a day were expressing how they deal with 

The 6 enemies of human being..

• "I don't listen to them at all either law bound issues or no law bound ones. I am all by myself. That's my strength!"

The 1st one shouted aloud..

• "I kept my own bench mark here. 99.9% don't listen to them on issues other than law bound ones and 100% on law bound issues. 0.1% is just an exception. It's nothing!"

The 2nd asserted..

• "0.25% and 99.75% is better option on issues not related to law and 100% to law related and I follow that. It's still 100% only as 0.25% is still small!"

The 3rd one clarified..

• "I allotted a bit more here. 0.5% listen and 99.5% don't listen!"

The 4th one revealed the plan..

• "My policy here is appear listen, don't listen, listen, don't listen, listen, don't listen and on and on.. Make that way 0% listening!"

The 5th one stressed the point..

• "I say, no listening at all and beyond question them for interfering with your life and show that you will not keep quiet if they interfere. That way I am more than 100% in not listening!"

The 6th one said with all firmness..

As the 6 decided thus on the plan of control of 6 next to them with

Desire and Illusion

Already working thru' their own plannings and assertions making way for

Anger, Greed, Pride and Jealousy

Attack in no time and overpower them,

Time stepped into future!

Keyword: ARISHADVARGAS