I thought of giving him back then and there, but you see, what outsiders think if we suddenly start fighting among ourselves? So, I just kept off. But I am feeling very much for the person who was pointed out unnecessarily!"
"Dear! I understand your feelings and I too agree that this person should not have criticized his own dear friend in front of you like that. And here, it is ever the duty of yours to stop this happening further..
But I have to tell you two points here on which you should have taken well care much before this happening or the moment the earliest signs of these surfaced. Why did you not discipline there much before?”
“I don’t understand what you are saying, Sir? What is that I should have taken care before? I am confused!”
‘Dear! When I deal with people all along, I got to move with extra awareness in respect of the happenings around me and express my displeasure the earliest the differences between people with me start surfacing at micro level itself..
It may be a bit difficult to understand what I say but if any one looks at it a bit calmly he / she can very easily grasp it. And all along in my dealings with people around me, I should forever interact with this extra awareness alone and there is no excuse for me to slip over this or take it easy when these differences would have been definitely seen in the earlier fine talks.. i.e.,
Nip in the bud is the slogan here..
Had this happened earlier in time, you would not be facing this situation at all because your person long back would have understood that you are never a person of approval of such talk. Now he started speaking this way in a gross form because he had already sensed that you are indirectly okaying it..
The second point is..
Even now, when you discuss this subject with me, what are you ultimately trying to arrive at? To become aware of the wrong that took place in you and thus approaching me to genuinely clarify your doubt or to be part of the same blame game of criticizing your friend in his absence?
I am not sure on this but I am sure even if it very much appeals to me that I am trying to find a solution for the same, the discrete pleasure of bringing down my friend on one side and sympathizing the other is indirectly making me feel superior in the game..
Here, can I firmly say with a hand on my heart that I never meant this?”
This post is a part of BlogchatterA2Z Challenge 2026
Keywords: DISCRETE, GAME






