LET ME JUST SMILE OR AS MUCH KEEP SILENCE! #BlogchatterBlogHop

Feedback given to me at any point of time is making me aware that I am/I am not as per the understanding of the person/s next to me..

The feedback can be appreciation of my actions or it can be criticism of my actions..

As long as my actions are as per my duty attached to me in that scenario, I should smile or keep silence for both appreciation and criticism..

Here alone problems come up many times, as I react to the comment, getting carried away for appreciation or feeling hurt for the criticism..

No way, being an ordinary human being with my own limitations, I instantly react to the comment and the related arguments surface and move on but the dust settles soon and clarity surfaces but this cycle with me goes on and on in my life as the powerful ignorance dictates me endlessly..

The only right discipline in this scenario of reactions is..

Let me not leave duties from my end at any point of time and beyond,

If it appeals to me, as much let me 

Retain a Smile 

Or 

Keep Silence

For all feedbacks given to me positive or negative!

*** When the negative feedback was given to the Great Saint that He was consuming without working, the Great Saint proclaimed that He need not work as he had no desires..

When asked how he'd survive without work, He smiled and said,

"Some of you may feed me.. If not, I go hungry and in process if the body perishes, let it!"

*** Whenever a Positive feed back was given to Him thru' praise, the Great Personality, feeling highly uncomfortable vehemently used to search for the defects in Him and as soon as found one used to declare, 

"I'm not that great.. I have a defect!"

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FOREVER, A GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY IN FRONT!

"I'm looking out for an opportunity to make a fortune in my life and prosper!"

"Why look out for opportunity? Why not turn all your situations into opportunities of various gradations and go ahead meticulously that will boost your personality?"

"What do you mean? Opportunities come up in life. You can't create them yourself!"

"That's not the right way to look at opportunities!"

"How?"

"Suppose, you do hard work with honesty and sincerity. People around you develop faith in you and give more as well as better works to you for completion..

As the Proverbs and Quotes around us say the same..

• Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work, so most people don't recognize them. (Ann Landers)
• In the middle of opportunity lies hard work. (Albert Einstein)
• Opportunity is missed by most people because it comes dressed in overalls and looks like work. (Thomas Alwa Edision)
• The opportunity that God sends does not wake him up who sleeps. (Senegalese Proverb)
• The bigger the challenge, the greater the opportunity. (Author Unknown)

"But that may not get me, the money I need!"

"Money is secondary here. You need to live life full; that's the prime purpose of life on earth. Here alone

Every situation next to you remains an opportunity

Face it boldly and you lose or win, they ever remain as both sides of your Personality Growth.

• If you win, you are strong as you are equipped to help the world as well as yourself,
• If you lose, you are equally strong as you are equipped to teach yourself as well as the world..

It is a win-win situation and the Quotes around say the same..

• A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty. (Winston Churchill)
• The door of opportunity is is wide open if you are prepared. (Author Unknown)
• Opportunity dances with those who are ready on the dance floor. (H. Jackson Brown Jr.)

Keywords: GOLDEN, OPPORTUNITY

THE ULTIMATE TRUTH IN LIFE!

When ignorance rules and doubt is seen nowhere..

"100% I know!"

Says one firmly..

When ignorance lessens and doubt surfaces..

"How much I know?"

Questions within one more..

When ignorance further lessens and doubt starts questioning..

"Do I really know?"

Expresses doubt, the 3rd one..

When ignorance slides down and doubt deepens..

"I know.. I don't know.. I know.. I don't know.."

Talks the 4th one on and off..

When knowledge surfaces and doubt vanishes..

"How can I know?"

Says the 5th one..

When knowledge continues rising and clarity surfaces..

"I don't know!"

Firmly says, the 6th one..

When knowledge establishes and clarity goes up and up..

"Nothing I know!"

Declares the 7th one..

That understanding, as it deepens within infinitely in unknown time and when the influence of the 3 Psychic knots Viz.,

Brahma Granthi
Vishnu Granthi and
Rudra Granthi

Vanishes allowing free flow of Spiritual Knowledge,

A Great Personality is born spreading around the

COSMIC KNOWLEDGE AND ORIGINAL SILENCE

Among millions of people helping them to rise in their lives!

Keywords: ULTIMATE, TRUTH

MY STRENGTH.. WHERE IT LIES TRULY?

• If your strength is small, don't carry heavy burdens; if your words are worthless, don't give advice. (Chinese Proverb)
• You know a man by the sweat of his brow and the strength of his word. (Arabian Proverb)
• One test of strength is the ability to take defeat graciously. (Lewise Korns)
• Lower your voice and strengthen your argument. (Lebanese Proverb)

"I have my own strengths!"

I asserted..

"May I know the contents of your strengths?"

The person of deep wisdom queried..

• "I can Cajole opposing people thru' my narrative skills..
• I can Conquer challenging people thru' my arguing powers..
• I can Convince agitating people thru' my persuading skills..
• I can Comfort hurt people thru' my assurance capacities..
• I can Cater to illiterate people thru' my knowledge skills..
• I can Correct erring people thru' my advising capacities..
• I can Console suffering people thru' my understanding skills..

The 7 Cs of my strengths!"

I replied with a big smile..

"You are sure a dictionary of reference to people around you. As you do these activities, can you equally remain

Compassionate with people, 

THE SACRED 8TH C OF YOUR STRENGTH?"

The person of wisdom asked..

"What do you mean? I am automatically Compassionate with people, when I do all these!"

"May be, but before asserting on your talking strengths,

Check, double Check and re-Check

Yourself..

Many times, as you do these activities, without your own knowledge, you carry a superior feeling with you expecting the person to be ever below your level..

That way your helping remains no helping at all..

Instead, if you remain Compassionate there, that is a humble feeling in you filled with endless love for that person's betterment with no reference of comparison..

WHAT IS THE TRUE STRENGTH OF YOURS, IN THIS SCENARIO?"

Keyword: STRENGTH

THE SACRED MESSAGE.. FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL! #BlogchatterBlogHop

I traveled back in history and it was the time, I was appointed as the Assistant to the Historical King....

That was my first day, in my Office..

With an air Authority, I gave clear-cut instructions to my staff next to me..

"In my Working Area everywhere, only one board should be displayed..

'At Your Service!'

At as many places as possible..

• All those boards should be daily cleaned thoroughly and kept sparkling,
• The letters on board should be bold and quite readable from distance and
• The board should carry a smile symbol all round the writing..

The moment a person enters the Office with a problem,

• He/she should be welcomed with the same smile,
• His/her problem listened to with all sincerity and He/she should be explained

• The complexity of the issue if any,
• The approximate time it takes to resolve the issue and
• The feed back that would be given to him/her in between

And

• Thus work out diligently towards solving the issue!"

"Are you really serious with your proposals?"

A Voice from behind asked..

"What do you mean?"

I shot back..

"Are you sure of implementing your plans with 100% success?"

"100% sure!"

"Look at your 'self!'"

"What is there to look at myself?"

"I'm saying look at your 'self!'"

"What?"

"Yes.. That 'self' in you.. Will it allow you to do, what you planned/proposed?"

"Why not?"

"From time immemorial, the Great Personalities fought with their 'self' non stop and they alone could bring it under control or could tame it!"

"Means, I..."

"You have to do many sacrifices before you talk on such things!"

"You mean to say.. I can't help people?"

"I'm not saying that you can't help. The No1 quality required with you in that situation is certain 

Humility and Calmness!"

"Can you be more clear?"

"As a person approaches you, you should

• Welcome him/her with a heart with a deep feeling within you that because of him/her only, you are in that seat,
• Listen to him/her whole heartedly,
• Look into the issue with dedication,
• Bring out the best solution in the situation

And

• Handover the solution with a smile on your face and a question within you..

'Could I have helped him/her better in the situation?'

And that attitude will make you be ready to resolve one's issue better, next time..

I advise you..

"Leave the show; do the duty!"

I became dumb..

Muttering courage, I asked,

"May I know, who you are advising me with such dedication?"

The Voice around became silent all of a sudden and as I looked at God's idol in front of me,

The Lord was seen smiling at me!

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DOUBTLESS ACTIONS.. 'D' , 'S' AND 'S'.. AT ANY POINT OF TIME IN MY LIFE!

"I'm confused..

If I do action 'A' and something goes wrong, I'll be squarely blamed..

If I do action 'B' and something goes wrong, I'll be squarely blamed..

If I do action 'C' and something goes wrong, I'll be squarely blamed..

What to do?"

"Do action 'D' in the situation, beyond 'S' and ultimately 'S!'"

"What is 'D?' How that will solve my problem?"

"'D' is your varying duty in the situation!"

"I didn't get it!"

"Dear! Perception of duty from your end changes with time. At the moment what you perceive as your duty, do that 'D' without fail!"

"Then, what is 'S?'"

"'S' is.. Whatever happens when you do 'D', 

Take it with a smile..

OK.. What else is another 'S' then?

Beyond 'D' and 'S', the second 'S' is the 

Ultimate Action required from your end!"

"What is that?" 

"Keeping silence Beyond!"

Keywords: DOUBTLESS, ACTIONS

MY CHARACTER.. FOREVER, 'THE GEM' NEXT TO ME!

Character is like a tree and reputation is like it's shadow. The shadow is what we think of it, the tree is the real thing. (Abraham Lincoln)

"I don't want to do the way you say. My reputation will be at stake!"

"I'm not asking you to spoil your reputation. I'm saying, make it Realistic!"

"How?"

"Dear! My reputation at times will be based on untruth. That happens when I give importance to pleasantries from my end sidelining Truth..  

• Like minded people,
• Like minded talks and
• Like minded situations

Float around me building a fake world with me..

It becomes difficult to say 'NO' to this fake world all of a sudden and thus I will be eternally caught in the net of 

• Doing something I like and
• Not approved by general public..

Soon, I stop paying attention there and start looking at my pleasantries as saviors of my life.. 

That vicious circle never stops but the volcano below my those doings will burst one day causing unknown pain in me..

It's better I become conscious of this Reality and follow the Path of Dharma in front of me which ever ticks

• Law bound attitude from my end and equally suggests if feasible,
• Sticking to Morals, beyond,
• Sticking to Ethics, beyond,
• Sticking to Higher Level Truth thus
• Progressively increasing
• Sacrificing from my end which does ultimate good to me..

Such being the Reality, why are you not rising from the present rut with you by firming up to do the right from now onwards?"

Keyword: CHARACTER