Tuesday, March 5, 2013

A Code of Conduct in this direction helps a lot!


The Head of an Ashram in his discourse, narrated the following story to a Group of Audience around Him….

“A dacoit who had committed many crimes in his life was totally a changed man when the Great Saint blessed and accepted him as His disciple.

Subsequently, the disciple sincerely requested the Master how the effect of his past ‘bad deeds’ would become ‘Null and Void’ in his life so that for ever he would become Pure and Sacred….The Master said, 'The only way in front of you is to go the same people to whom you caused untold agony and misery in their lives, surrender to them totally unarmed and take honestly whatever punishment the group decides to give you at the back of their suffering. That action alone makes you Pure!' 

The disciple determined to become so, went into the village where he earlier created terror and damage and surrendered to the villagers totally unarmed and unresisting ….The villagers out of their anger and further fear beat him black and blue and threw him out of the village…. The disciple somehow reached the Ashram, explained to the Master what he had done and died….

The Master declared to the rest of the group around Him, ‘He is the closest Disciple of mine and for ever Elevated!’”

The Head concluded, “The moral behind this story is that one should at any instant be ready to have a plan of undoing the earlier hate carried by him / her knowingly or unknowingly through a dedicated effort of making amends directly or indirectly with those who were thus kept off in the process.  In case it is not feasible to do so, one should at least start helping out the next man on the scene and work in that direction the max possible.  And, while doing this, one should constantly be  aware of the ultimate good that would accrue through Mother Nature's Plan in undoing all such 'wrongs' of the past …. 


Simultaneously one should develop a strict discipline of being instantly away from all future wrong proposals of carrying forward the hate which would harm the man in picture in particular and the society in general.  

All such sacred actions alone truly secure the ultimate peace in life!”

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Right Advising....

A man of mid thirties used to advise very young people on important aspects of life….”Do this way, you will have no problem and every issue comes under control!” he used to say…. No doubt, he used to advise on issues which were more less part of every one’s life including the solutions…. 

An elderly well-wisher, a man of true wisdom who observed him for a while, at length decided to educate him in the right way in these matters…. Accordingly one cool evening he met him and after a brief enquiry, straight away said, “My dear!  I saw you advising constantly many young people in matters of education, work and living the life….But I would like to bring out to your notice two important points in this context….”

“What are those points, Sir?”


“Number one is…. Advising should never be done without the life experience which generally becomes part of you as you live through major part of your active life….The issues mainly covered here include all those related to honest living, hard work, caring for people, good values in life, safe way of living and other related to financial aspects….Diplomatic way of managing the issues around too forms part of this advising….

Number two is….To understand clearly that advising is never complete unless one is relatively free from the “known!” This aspect depends exclusively on an individual’s depth of perception of life.  No age can help here and no Austerity Measures, Spiritual Practices, Worships and Practice of Morals and Ethics can make us free from the “known!”….If that happens, instantly the individual is a different personality to the level the Clarity comes through and that personality alone can authoritatively speak on the related issues. This is totally a Divine Gift but good practices would aid in the process, if not bring the change by themselves…. A personality thus freed from certain “known” alone knows the ‘Unknown” part of it to advise exclusively in that direction! 

If advising is done without either of these two back ups , it will have no effect on the Receiver except when he / she  himself / herself understands in the right way but a few times may confuse the individuals charged with emotions!”


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While leaving the well-wisher smiled and quipped, "Such personalities actually never advise but only gently correct and leave the 'change' required to happen through Mother Nature's Plan for the particular individual!"