THE YOUNG ADULT'S SPIRIT OF EXPERIMENTATION IS GOD'S GIFT! #WRITEAPAGEADAY

“I got fed up with the attitude of my fellow. See Sir, these youngsters do not know how to plan and do their activities. They simply have odd plans and try to get into nonsense situations. They never see the true cause and effect. I am sick of advising and telling my fellow. He simply wastes a lot and never bothers about it.

He plans some thing and leaves in the middle.
He gets into with lots of enthusiasm and in no time all is watered down.
He promises to show the moon, thank God, many times I stopped him.

I don’t know when this boy becomes alright and stops giving me head aches!”

Thus spoke a father with a clear disgust on his face to an elderly well-wisher about his son who was sitting tight on his head!

The well-wisher listened to all, paused a while, smiled and said,

“My dear! I understand your turmoil. I too recommend that the youngsters are to be guided in all these issues at the right time. But the important thing here is that all the time they be guided gently and softly alone. Never in a harsh way! It is better we constantly explain the cause and effect and if possible make them party to both so that the immediate issues are seen and partly experienced by them without much damage as we will always be at their back….

See! The young adult alone has the jest to learn and experiment and he/she with all inquisitive spirit and energy always rushes in that direction..

The only thing is..

He/she does not have enough resources to do that and we only have them! So as a first step, the caretaker should allow him/her go ahead with the experimentation. May be

Some times it goes in an entirely different direction of growth and up lift which no one would have thought of,
Some times some improvement beyond which every thing tapers off,
A few times no growth at all and once in a way a down fall too..

All are equally possible but the experimentation of the young man should go on without a stop.

Let the monies and energies that go in this direction be limited and well be under control so that the entire loss if it occurs too, has no effect on immediate life!

Such experimentations done in youth bring or give the right personality to the young adult which stabilizes very much in his / her later part of life.And

It is a sin to put a total brake to it or allow it only at chocolate level which is as good as not allowing it!”

Keywords: #WriteAPageADay, EXPERIMENTATION