A man of mid 30s used to advise very young people on important aspects of life saying,
”Do this way, you'll have no problem and every issue comes under control!”
No doubt, he used to advise on issues which were more or less part of every one’s life including the solutions..
An elderly well-wisher, a man of true wisdom who observed him for a while, met him one cool evening and after a brief enquiry said,
“Dear! I saw you advising constantly many young people in the matters of education, work and living the life. But I would like to bring out to your notice two points in this context!”
“What are those points, Sir?”
The man, taken a back asked the elderly..
“No 1:
Advising should never be done without life experience back up which generally becomes part of you as you live through major part of your active life..
The issues mainly covered here include all those related to
- Honest living,
- Hard work,
- Caring for people,
- Good values in life,
- Safe way of living and
- Other related to financial aspects..
No 2:
To understand clearly that advising is never complete unless one is relatively free from the
'Known!'
And this aspect depends exclusively on an individual’s depth of perception of life. No age can help here and no
- Austerity Measures,
- Spiritual Practices,
- Worships and
- Practice of Morals and Ethics
'Known!'
If that truly happens, instantly the individual is a different personality to the level the Clarity comes through and that personality alone can authoritatively speak on the related issues..
That is totally a Divine Gift but good practices would aid in the process, if not bring the change by themselves. A personality thus freed from certain
'Known'
Alone knows the
‘Unknown'
Part of it to advise exclusively in that direction..
If advising is done without either of these two back-ups, it will have no effect on the Receiver except when he/she himself/herself understands in the right way but a few times may confuse the individuals charged with emotions!”
"-------"
While leaving the well-wisher smiled and said,
"Do you know? Actually such gifted Personalities all along having 100% right to advise, truly never advised but only gently corrected and left the
'Change'
Required to happen through
GREATER SACRED PLAN OF THE ENTIRE
For the particular individual!"
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And this is wisdom. Yes, we need these two backups to advise the personalities who have these two backups only to correct and leave the change to happen on its own. Wise thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThanks for concurring on the message of the Post.. You said it again.. Advising minimum is ever the wisest. Wishes!
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