HELPING THE OTHER.. WHAT'S IT LIKE?

"I want to help the person in need!"

"Every one can help himself/herself. Your extra help comes in the way of their development!"

"You mean, I shouldn't extend any help to the other person?"

"Be ready to help but where the person can himself/herself do that, let the person alone do it!"

"Why so?"

"Dear! In all activities of extending help, you should remember that Nature expects balance and that natural balance prevails only if everyone does his/her job to the core..

When you extend help where not required, there is an imbalance in Nature.. Meaning..

• The other person is not struggling there to the required level 

And

• You too are not doing your job to be done at that point of time..

At the same time,

When a person truly needs help and you help him/her,

• The other person is struggling there to the required level 

And

• You too are doing your job to be done at that point of time..

You know..

When a stranger approached the Great Personality and said, 

'Sir, I'm hungry.. Give me some food!'

The Great Personality replied, 

'I've a work to be done. Please complete that and I'll give you food!'

As the stranger retorted back saying, 

'Sir, how can you ask a person to work when he is hungry and weak? Can't you be sympathetic to one in distress?'

The Noble personality replied,

"If so, I'll give you food immediately. You can eat, relax for a while but after that you would finish my work!' 

The stranger flatly refused the proposal saying that the Great Personality whom the world honored so much was calculative and left the place. The Noble Personality remained firm!"

Keyword: HELPING