You can order anything from the cosmic catalog, What would you order? Make yourself- very clear the universe is listening. #enrichinglives
The Post is suited for Blogchatter BlogRolls too under #CauseAChatter..
A man had certain tiff with his friend and was razing within with the ever spoken enemy of man..
THE HATRED
Taking birth in him..
- “Hell with this man! I don't want to interact with him any more.. Let me pretend sickness, need some rest and be off from him immediately!”
Some time passed and soon another thought came up in him..
- “Why this pretension? Why not just say 'Hi' to him and be off rather than talk unnecessarily from my side?”
THE HATRED
In him reduced in it's intensity a bit..
Some more time passed and soon another thought came up in him..
- “Why not just behave normal and be interacting with him as usual but not believe in anything he says?”
THE HATRED
In him reduced a lot in it's intensity...
Further time passed and again another thought came up in him..
- “Why should I pretend like this? Let me be natural as usual in my group doing the right never expecting anything from this friend!”
THE HATRED
In him simmering low by then..
And finally the unique thought came up in him..
- "Why should I limit here from my side? Why not I
Be truly a friend,
Cheer up where required,
Do a little more and
Expect nothing..
- Thus truly honoring
- Forever keeping my secrets and my problems to myself and thus remain happy with 'Nil' conflict in my mind!”
UNIQUE MOEMNT
In the life of man when the treacherous enemy..
THE HATRED
Totally melted away replacing with
LOVE FOR THE CAUSE!
No doubt, it's truly a lucky moment in my life, when my consciousness too finely discerns
GOOD AND PLEASANT
Allowing me choose more and more good in place of the pleasant and if I have to choose something from
THE COSMIC CATALOGUE
Right at this moment, I pray to the Almighty to give me enough mental strength to order the above
DISCRIMINATING CAPACITY
As much to sustain and live this one my life on the earth
TRULY HAPPY!
Keyword: HATRED
Nice article indeed :) and it's reality everywhere that do all right but never expect from anyone :) well your all blogs are very intresting.
ReplyDeleteThank you Neeraj, for a good Comment and Appreciation!
DeleteThis is a very beautiful article. Loved reading it. Totally agree with you. Expectations give rise to conflicts.
ReplyDeleteThanks Purba.. When we just do our duty and remain thus, the conflict within us is sure going to be NIL.. Expectations of any nature forever pulls the man into the eternal conflict of fighting to get it with a doubt whether one gets it or not.. A nice comment here!
DeleteI appreciate the thoughts expressed herein Sir. Unarguably you have asserted something worth being endorsed and embraced for assimilation with own personality for own betterment. All the same, let me assert that judicious expectations for deserved rewards can't be done away with in mundane life especially in employment. And hence what you have asserted is hard to apply in the context of those who are hell-bent upon harming you or depriving you of your due (quite knowingly and deliberately). The realistic thing is that we are human-beings, not angels. Hatred is undoubtedly undesirable but sometimes normal human-beings can't help maintaining the same towards specific ones. We can (and we should) aspire to be angelic but any attempt towards that bears a cost.
ReplyDeleteYes.. Jitendra.. I agree very much that I as an ordinary mortal should not attempt doing the above by pardoning in each and every situation and thus make my life small without much expansion and expression.. Our Philosophers forever stressed this point and never advised us to keep off from any active mundane interests..
DeleteKeeping this in mind, I wrote the Post wherein the last understanding stresses forever to be careful as we move in our life discharging our duties where in self protection becomes one of my duties at my own level.. And here alone each person's perception of life aspects differ and sometimes one may understand that after taking utmost care from himself/herself why further ponder over the issues when that sure never helps in one’s expression in any.. If one feels minimizing the conflict within and thus be at peace for more time, the sure path is instantly seen as forgive and forget never reducing even an inch the vigilance care in the situation from their side..
Request to reply on this interesting discussion for understanding the subject a bit deeper along with our usual ups and downs of life..
And thanks for bringing out such an interesting and valuable comment here for much deeper understanding of the subject!
Hearty thanks Sir. In a review, I have asserted that 'Man is a product of his experiences'. Positive experiences build a positively thinking person and negative experiences, quite naturally, build a negatively thinking person. Sometimes the society plays the villain and in turn, gets repaid in the same coin by the aggrieved. A childlike trusting innocent is thus turned into an apprehensive and shrewed one by the frequent breakage of his trust only by the so-called practical ones. How can and for how long a person with a heart of gold afford to remain so when time and again, he is betrayed by those who pretend to be his friend but actually are his foes. The most dangerous enemy is one who meets in the disguise of a friend (just like a wolf wearing the skin of a sheep) because his real self and real intent remain hidden under his friendly persona and therefore, the required wariness for own safety does not exist. The harsh truth is that even the people with angelic nature and possessing hearts of gold are bound to live in the society with all the worldly obligations lying on their shoulders. Despite all the virtues embedded in their personality, they can't afford to become a sage and live in seclusion. I am a very forgiving person by nature but find it difficult to forgive all and sundry. Whenever I am betrayed by someone I trusted, it becomes very difficult for me to forgive myself more than that betraying one.
ReplyDeleteAll things said and done, the viewpoint put forth as well as the process of self-transformation elucidated in this blog is agreeable to me. I will relentlessly aim for it. King Janak should be my role model who was a hermit in his heart and saint in his attitude despite being a king and a Grihastha in his real life.
All the sa
Thanks Jitendra.. Your highly informative comment here is truly an add-on to the content of the Post.. Rightly said!
DeleteVery valid point you have discussed here. Expectation leads to disappointment. Disappointment gives birth to resentment. Resentment awards us loss of peace of mind!! Ultimately despite being the sufferer ourselves, we add more pain by allowing all of them to take control! As quoted by Mr. Jitendra in the above comment, it gets difficult to forgive the person and forget his action that caused much pain. It is difficult, yes, but not, impossible. This is why elders suggest to follow - attachment with detachment - to avoid such unpleasant situations anywhere and with anyone!! We mus try... for the sake of being at peace with ourselves!!
ReplyDeleteYes.. That's very much the right point here, Manasaa.. It's difficult for us to live thru' our life with such a dispassion, sometimes simply impossible too but an attempt from my side can always be initiated.. And the very interest in attempting here makes us truly lighter in our dealings of day to day life.. Thanks for the good supportive comment here!
DeleteTrue Sir. A spark is all that is required to set a flame. Likewise, a small step/initiative from our side will make a great impact!
DeleteVery creative..wish I could emulate what you have so eloquently put in the post!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sunita Sriram for the compliment and appreciation.. Happy to know that you liked the message conveyed thru' the Post.. Wishes!
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