Saturday, February 11, 2017

THE SANCTITY OF LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP..
  • The young man and the woman blessed with so many plus in life had their first meet.. There was an unusual feeling in their hearts and the so called 'Sacred Love' took its birth very much asserting the plus they experienced in their life till then.. 
  • The young man and the woman having both plus and minus too had their first meet.. There was an unusual feeling in their hearts and the so called 'Sacred Love' took its birth directly negating the whole minus they experienced in their life till then.. 
  • The young man and the woman having many minuses too had their first meet.. There was an unusual feeling in their hearts and the so called 'Sacred Love' took its birth indirectly negating greater of the minus they experienced in their life till then.. 
In between, many young men and women of different plus and minus too came closer.. There was an unusual feeling in their hearts and the so called 'Sacred Love' took its birth directly asserting the plus and indirectly negating greater of the minus they experienced in their life till then..

Whatever be the status of those couples, the feeling, called 'Love' was unique in their hearts and that being the gift of God could never find an alternative on the earth..

Such a Love with every couple soon blooms into a relationship, over time that bonds over them but unfortunately in few cases that does not happen.. Soon the conflicts surface and a solution is to be necessarily worked out at the back untold misery in their hearts..

And that spirit of maintaining a warm and bonding relation between the couples forever goes with a discipline understanding very clearly that..
  • 'Basically I have a bounden duty towards myself.. I have to maintain myself in the best interests of health and safety.. 
  • Beyond this, as I am interested in the physical / psychological interactions in the world, I should be very much prepared to do that to bring back the stability in me while living.. Here, I'm always constrained to act within my limits as other people too are equally involved in their own way.. 
  • This interaction is nothing but living and managing and it needs all types of skills / techniques to be brought out of me.. And invariably I've to use those my skills/techniques in such a way that the Order in Creation is not disturbed or questioned.. 
  • The family is the group wherein I am destined to do some special actions as I entered into these so called contracts knowingly or unknowingly.. My family members have kept a trust in me and might have delegated certain responsibilities to me out of that faith in me.. Here, I forever should remain a Trustee to those materialistic assets of the family handed over to me in good faith and should continue utilizing those for the growth and betterment of the family members!' 
When such a discipline is adhered to in one's life, the relationships most of the times do remain intact joining all the loose knots therein as a service attitude surfaces all along.. And in an unfortunate situation, even if it happens to be saying bye to a relation, the peace of mind sure will not vanish as in such a scenario the motto in the line of the Great Saint's words..

'The hand that hit me is serving me!'


is seen more rather than a revenge feeling

'I should do tit for tat!'

The Post is written in line with the IndiSpire Post What makes or breaks a relationship? How easy or tough is it to say 'hi' & bid 'bye' to a new/old relationship? Share your views & tips. Any relationship advice or lessons?#Relationship

Keywords: Love, Relationship

2 comments:

  1. What a beautiful explanation of relationship and life in this post. I really liked the way you categorised different stages of relationship.

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    1. Thanks MeenalSonal for posting such an appreciative comment on the Post.. Very rightly confirmed the message here once again!

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