MY 5 TAKEAWAYS FROM YR 2017!
As I looked back into yr 2017 to take forward 5 things to yr 2018 in respect of disciplining myself and becoming a better individual useful to the myself as well as to the society, strangely the number never stopped there but steadily rose as I continued that introspection.
I thought.. It's okay.. If not 5, let me count the shortcomings and let me take all of them forward with a firm promise within that I do improve there..
Thus I got into certain thoughts and went on counting on the points wherein
I was aghast for a while but quickly reconciled to the fact that it's not the short comings of mine that need to be addressed instead I should change myself..
As I looked into that subject deeper, I quickly understood that
It's my strong 'self' with me that was doing all that mischief and if at all I should resolve this issue right now, this self alone had to be questioned.
Gone thus deep into the topic, it was not difficult for me finally where I should correct myself..
Many times, I may be easily finding fault with my next man saying that he/she had not risen up to my expectations but where is the guarantee that my expectation is the ‘Right’ one?
It's my own 'Ignorance' holding me tight makes me a 100% feel that what I do/say is the ‘Right!’
In that conflicting scenario, instead of learning the 'New' from the next man I often end up with a pride at my back and thus
As I looked back into yr 2017 to take forward 5 things to yr 2018 in respect of disciplining myself and becoming a better individual useful to the myself as well as to the society, strangely the number never stopped there but steadily rose as I continued that introspection.
I thought.. It's okay.. If not 5, let me count the shortcomings and let me take all of them forward with a firm promise within that I do improve there..
Thus I got into certain thoughts and went on counting on the points wherein
- I firmed up initially doing in the right way
- Shelving it or
- Totally doing in a different or
- Doing a little in that direction and soon changing my intentions!
I was aghast for a while but quickly reconciled to the fact that it's not the short comings of mine that need to be addressed instead I should change myself..
As I looked into that subject deeper, I quickly understood that
It's my strong 'self' with me that was doing all that mischief and if at all I should resolve this issue right now, this self alone had to be questioned.
Gone thus deep into the topic, it was not difficult for me finally where I should correct myself..
Many times, I may be easily finding fault with my next man saying that he/she had not risen up to my expectations but where is the guarantee that my expectation is the ‘Right’ one?
It's my own 'Ignorance' holding me tight makes me a 100% feel that what I do/say is the ‘Right!’
In that conflicting scenario, instead of learning the 'New' from the next man I often end up with a pride at my back and thus
- Brand the man,
- Draw a line and
- Feel myself different and superior!
- His/her friends,
- His/her well-wishers and
- His/her own people who
- Go well with him/her and who equally
- Put him/her on record for his/her achievements..
All is well with the other man.. Something is wrong with me only!
That soon brought out a message in me which I am very much interested to carry forward to 2018 as my takeaway to improve myself viz.,
I hereby wish all my Blogger friends and FB friends a very Happy and prosperous New Year 2018!
‘This post is a part of
Write Over the Weekend,
an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’
Keyword: Takeaways
- 1) I should start truly caring for the other man to the best of my abilities and whenever I side track there which sure happens at my level of understanding, I should sincerely pull back and once again get into the planned actions!
- 2) I should start truly caring for the other man.......
- 3) I should start truly caring for the other man.......
- 4) I should start truly caring for the other man.......
- 5) I should start truly caring for the other man.......
I hereby wish all my Blogger friends and FB friends a very Happy and prosperous New Year 2018!
‘This post is a part of
Write Over the Weekend,
an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’
Keyword: Takeaways
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