NO DOUBT THE HEART BEATS HERE BUT EQUALLY IT SHOULD SPARKLE!

Two parents had different approaches in bringing up their children..

One used to say,

• "I'll give max to my children. They should feel received nothing less from me!"

The other used to say,

• "I'll give the required to my children. They would feel received nothing less from me!"

Days passed into weeks, months and years..

The children had grown into full fledged individuals with their own life responsibilities as well as their problems..

All along the children of the first parent used to say..

• "No doubt our parent had given us but never gave full. Because of that, we have problems today!"

Those of the second parent used to say..

• "Our parent had given us the best. Because of that, we are capable of solving problems today!"

Seen thus, my help is sure the most required for my children when they are growing. To say rightly, help and service are the not the words; it's my sincere work that is required for my people when they are young and I should do it 100%..

When the possessive feeling is strong in me, I'll provide an excess support there without getting into details whether it's required or not. Here, a feeling..

• 'My children should have the best!'

Overtakes me instantly..

An excess support sure hampers the children's growth as it is like giving food to their mouth. They soon take life in front easy and never learn or attempt to learn the required.. 

Instead,

When the parent neither over reacts nor takes it less, what appeals to him/her is just the appropriate care with his/her own reasonable resources and energies and such care no doubt,

Can't make the children's life problem free but sure,

Makes them capable enough solve the problems appropriately!

Keywords: PARENTAL, CARE