Sunday, January 24, 2016

THE REAL FIRST CRUSH IN MY LIFE.. MY QUIRKY FRIEND!



Infatuation may be the way of youth and that way as I remember, the 
True First Crush
in my life never came up till I attained mid thirties with the max family responsibilities attached and all of a sudden for the 
First Time 
am made to experience the direct contact with this 
Single Quirky Friend..

In the early years of my life, I remember I heard a lot about my this quirky friend and
read many stories in connection with that and the associated quirkiness as
some alone could keep this life time friendship and
some couldn't do so and ultimately became the simple acquaintances therein
as they weren't able to withstand this friend's quirkiness beyond a limit..

Soon I had developed a great Crush on this quirky Friend and
initially it looked nice and easy to handle the situation
but as time passed, this friend of mine became too tough and truly quirky and 
because of that, a few times I got into real crisis situations to deal with..

A few easy going people advised me not to go too close there
as the situation makes one eternally run round with no cool in their life,
but in my heart, a certain drive
prompted me not to leave this friendship whatever may be the outcome but
equally advised me that since I have a body to live which needed to be safeguarded for reasons unknown, 
the quirkiness might expose me to direct damages if not on guard and so
the middle path appeared truly safe for me where in the situation would become 
a Win-Win as I live thru' my life with a min cool..

Thus I firmed up a 100% in my mind to manage the issues in front on which I already committed without 
getting into additional new commitments 
and decided to move on in my life with this truly
FIRST CRUSH QUIRKY FRIEND 
of my life Viz., 
THE HONESTY IN ME
and the ever close Companion there in.. 
THE ASSOCIATED PEACE WITH ME 
and never leave their company!

The Post is written in line with Indispire Prompt #firstcrush and
is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.

14 comments:

  1. apart from the term"quirky'this post hides more than it reveals about the first crush :)

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    1. Thanks Rajeev for the right point brought out in this context which definitely needs to be clarified a bit for the benefit of my friendly Readers.. As I checked the Online Dictionary, one of the meanings I got for the word 'crush' is 'a brief but intense infatuation' and again 'infatuation' means 'an intense but short lived passion for some one or something..' In this context alone I used that word with a personification of the entities 'honesty' and 'peace' and wound a story around them depicting the one time message there that how difficult it is to keep up honesty to the core and the related safety of the middle path.. I hope my Subject Topic as a Blogger rightly fits into the Topic given in Indispire #FirstCrush equally creating a little suspense around that..

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  2. Enjoyed reading about your first crush sir ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. Oh! Thanks Archana.. Just a little mystery in the end.. Thanks for sharing the same on Google+

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  3. Hehehe... in the first look i thought you will really tell about your first quirky crush.
    nice mystery.

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    1. That's the suspense of the Topic, Shraddha.. Happy to know that the Post kept you amused..Thanks for the comment!

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  4. Thank you Sreedharji for the clarification.It now gives a better understanding.

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  5. Nice take on the prompt Sir and your clarification gave me a clearer view... :)

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    1. Thanks Arpita.. Happy to have such a good comment on the Post!

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  6. Quite intriguing and well-written Sir!

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    1. Thank you very much Leena.. A nice appreciative comment here!

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  7. Your quirky friend is the best friend to have in life. Written very nicely, maintained the suspense till end :)

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    1. Thanks Ranjana for stressing the importance of that.. Happy to know that the Post is interesting!

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