Thursday, September 9, 2021

'I'M GOOD!' EVERYONE SAYS.. IS THAT, SURE ENOUGH?



“Sir!

All along I was told that I am
  • Simple,
  • Master of my Speciality,
  • Artistic and
  • Rule-bound.. 
At my work.. But of late, I'm noticing that many works are pouring out on my table thru' the Boss and thru' the Hierarchy above him either directly or indirectly..

I am tired beyond by the time I go home. Thus seen, I feel I'm a totally a lost person here and at times feel helpless!”

“Dear! Truly speaking, you have 
the best qualities in you which any Employer would love to have with his/her Employee. But along with these another quality is very much missing in you!"

"What is that, Sir!"
"I'll tell you.. When this quality lacks in you, all the 'Plus' of you will be made use by others, some times beyond leading to situation you are experiencing presently..

After allowing thus, if you suddenly refuse to do the job you are asked, the other party can never digest that and they naturally get into the usual way of mending people to their line..
  • Initially they try to lure.. 
  • Next step, they question mildly.. 
  • The next, no doubt they do that with authority.. 
  • And finally they threaten and beyond may abuse too! 
If you refuse even then,

Permanent enmities surface and none knows in which direction finally it goes!"

"Sir! I couldn't get it!"

You see, your 4 qualities begin with 

S, M, A, R 

Letters.. It's the wonderful letter 

'T'

Which makes up the deficient quality in you and forever 

Completes one's mundane personality truly on the earth along with the 4+!"

"?????"

"I say, rise yourself and start being

TOUGH

Where required. This pull back is very much required in you presently to set right your home.. Now, tell me, when are becoming

SMART

In your life?"

Keywords: TOUGH, SMART

6 comments:

  1. True that sir!
    I myself face the same problem:Cant' say "NO" & it certainly has got me into a lot of troubled yet eventually satisfying situations. Like you said , We human beings can't stand the idea of not being considered "Good" by our peer group. We do require approvals inorder to make ourselves feel good/happy/satisfied about ourselves. That's how we are & that is indeed the sole reason for our sufferings.
    Thought provoking post , sir.
    Very well written.:)

    http://aficionadolog.blogspot.com/

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    1. Thanks Nikhil! You have expressed the meaning behind my Posting so well with your personal experience... What you said is right.... We gain one way but lose the other way.... Good Analysis!

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  2. This want to always impress no matter what the consequences really leads us down a slippery slope. We keep doing stupid things, participating in gossip and slander to make sure we look 'cool'. It's tough to say no for the fear of being an outcast and yet it is definitely a thing we all need to learn.

    Congratulations on being the top post for today on Indiblogger. I had fun reading your post.

    http://www.aparnamudi.com

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    1. That's nice to say so, Aparna.. You have rightly said the point here once again.. Yes.. It's a problem many times in our life but no despair, if we firm up we sure can reduce the impact of it if not the total.. Thanks for the appreciation.. Happy to know that you liked it!

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  3. Beautifully expressed! Enjoyed reading it.

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