THE EVER GREEN FACTS OF A GOOD MARRIED LIFE!

The Great Man said,

• "The purpose of marriage in one's life being basically meeting the procreation need of Nature, any physical intimacy beyond that is really not a fundamental requirement of living thru' the relation if both the parties are in mutual agreement for that!"

Having proclaimed thus, He with full concurrence from His spouse totally practiced Brahmacharya thru' abstinence from certain stage of His married life involving Himself fully into the family responsibilities to the core and doing other services to humanity..

Seen in that context, it is very much evident that physical intimacy in a relation forever has the sacred purpose of continuing the progeny on the earth in tune with Nature's requirement..

Beyond that stressing more on bringing up the offsprings giving max attention for their betterment is ever seen as the higher responsibility of both the partners of married life..

In this context, age matters a lot and it's better, the young adults to a large extent remain in tune with Nature's requirement of physical intimacy everywhere stringently sticking to the laws of land governing the relation between the individuals..

With advancement of age, as taking care of children assumes a prominent role in the parents' life, it's ever right the partners look at this responsibility with greater attention and firm up to dedicate themselves for the betterment of family in general thru' a service attitude wherein the Saying,

'Care for the other as you care for yourself'

Is constantly upheld..

The path needs to be treaded carefully as Nature's forces are no less and many times devoid of physical intimacy, the relation may look almost dry and unacceptable and equal number of times may come under threat..

In such situations, it's better one sticks to the primary force in Nature of continuing the physical intimacy rather straight away take stringent pledges to live further life devoid of that intimacy..

Here, it becomes highly essential for the partners to test themselves repeatedly in continuing their life devoid of this intimacy all along taking the higher role of caring and supporting the needs of the family thus indirectly growing within themselves higher and higher

Which seen from a different angle is what our Mother Nature expects from us having taken up the human birth..

In this context, it's ever worth one remembers that stringent forces for ever surround married life such as

• The saying may go that marriages are made in heaven but the actual married life is be physically lived on earth with lot of push and pull a few times making the situation feel a hell like environment around..

• Before marriage, friendship and wooing may look like a honeymoon experience but after marriage the couple definitely have to face the blazing sun of factual life..

• Familiarity sure breeds contempt and here marriage is no exception as the parties are too familiar..

• A few times, a marriage may become a great pain and separation looks inevitable and there, any deficiency in the physical intimacy can soon blow up and lead the partners to a total lost feeling.. 

In such predisposed cases, it's ever better the mid path of living life i.e,

Caring for basic self needs and working for the welfare of the members of the family

Will many times help continue the sacred married relation in tact!

The Post is written in line with this week's IndiSpire Prompt Is physical intimacy the only thing which matters in a relationship? Can you live without it and yet be happy?#Physicalintimacy

Keywords: marriage, physical, intimacy