Wednesday, July 29, 2015

THE BETTER WAY A FEW TIMES.. 'SMILE AND LEAVE!'

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Sunday, July 26, 2015

THE ONE THING I 'EVER LOVE' TO DO..

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The hot topic of the day within me was.. 
'Is my House in Order?'

As I perceived myself into the 'Inside Personality' through a certain introspection, it soon revealed.. 'Yes! There's really a disorder!' 

The next question followed in me..
'Why not I set it alright? No other work is more important than this at this moment!'

Subsequently there was a certain thought process moving in that direction..

'To the extent feasible, there should not be much difference between the inside and outside appearances.. Then only what is seen outside stays fresh forever else the danger of a collapse is imminent as the inside cannot remain secret for long and soon would explode with full steam..

Then outwardly if I'm looking fine, well balanced, all mannered and full of vigor, I should constantly maintain this balance inside too and if not the same, at least nearer to that as much as possible with an ever Correction Process 'SET ON' simultaneously within me!'

That rethinking further led me to certain deeper introspection.. 

'There are three activities I continuously do in my life.. They are.. Thinking, Speaking and Doing.. Number one is always within simmering and the other two are always outward going.. 

It means.. 

I should Think, Express and Do the same as much as possible.. If I can do this one hundred percent, it's ideal..  But that's not truly feasible because as a human being, I'm always limited.. But no despair.. I can always do there to the nearest! 

And that Single Unique Way forever is.. 

Just to carry a Sacred Thought in a never forgetting scenario that I'm important everywhere forever including within myself throughout my life but the other man next me too is no way less here at any point of time in my life!' 

Yes.. Finally, I got the way out! 

Truly the Right Way of setting right my disorder and never letting my those energies meant for the Great Task diverted to other mundane interests which soon sure cover up that Noble Aim if allowed!

The dream sort of thing ended, I was back to senses again but with a New Energy in me to go ahead with the New Task with all vigor and instantly that alone truly seemed to be the Right Thing which I ever loved to do in my life there after!

(The Post is written for the Indispire Prompt #OneThingForLove)

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

FINALLY, 'THE UNDISPUTED WAY' TRULY HAD ITS 'HOLD!'


The Evening Sky was cloudy with few dark clouds passing at low level resulting in cool breeze taking off part of the usual summer heat of the day.. It looked it might rain at any time, but many were not bothered of that and as usual the Park was crowded with the usual evening visitors.. One such group were relaxing in their usual place at the Central Point of the Park and for a while their Topic turned out to be 'How to take care of the Little Children amidst the day to day pressures in the family, at work etc..' Each one was expressing their own views out of their individual perceptions in respect of the Topic..
  • "It's not the right practice here at any point of time.. I know a Mother who constantly follows her child........" 
  • "I've seen exactly the opposite in one family.. The Mom there........... " 
  • "Yes! It happens a few times.. I feel that some times the mid way in these dealings would be the best........" 
  • "You may say thus but I know a case where the Mom does in a totally different way and there the problem is......" 
  • "I don't agree here.. See! after all, the child care is a responsibility of......" 
  • "Dear! You may easily say that.. But in practice, when the Little One starts............ So, the best way is......." 
  • "No.. What you say again needs a modification.. You see, every Mom should......." 
  • "You know, I am speaking out of what I read in one book.. There the Author says........" 
  • "It's very easy to say all that.. But considering reality, the best practice is to allow the child........." 
  • "OK! I don't want to say anything here.. But left to me, I'll say the right way of dealing with a child is......" 
Ten different people..Ten different ways.. Of course, each one stressing their own way very much! Thus was going on the talk endlessly for a while..

Suddenly, all of them happened to watch an interesting 'Event' in front of them at a distance in the garden part of the Park..

A small child was seen running across screaming aloud,"No.. No.. No" the Mom running behind him with some food in her hand, catching the boy's hand, holding him firmly and forcing him eat what was in her hand..

The Little One refused but the Mom equally never left her attempt, started cajoling him for a while.. The boy became adamant, rolled over the ground for a while with some dirt sticking to him and his dress and again the Mom too relentlessly did not leave her attempt, pulled him and cleaned him in the process partly dirtying herself on her face but never appeared caring for that and such a chaos of crying and shouting continued for a while..

All that suddenly subsided, the Little One was all in smiles the next moment and the Mom was doubly cheerful looking at him and making him eat what she made and brought for him as the best for him and further next moment was seen carrying him close to her heart with the Little One joyfully playing with her hair and each communicating to the other very closely in their own language never understood by the third person however one may try to overhear and thus they moved on together as ONE and slowly vanished from the Scene!


The people who happened to watch the entire 'Episode' in front were silent for a while but in no time it appeared that there was an equal silent unanimous conclusion in their minds..

The Message was..

  • Basically, every Mom knows what is the best for her child in a given situation..
  • She devices her own techniques there, pools up her own resources to the best possible, works every second and thus moves in her life towards the betterment of her child..
  • This Take Care may vary widely from Mom to Mom but ultimately, that single choice of work out of each Mother to her child does the real good..
  • The rest other methods of Take Care too would do good in the situation when the Mom in picture wishes to do in that way..
  • It is ever the duty of others around help her in the process of this Sacred Take Care and support her the max possible.. 
And strangely that Message alone had instantly become the Undisputed Concluded Point of the discussions of the day with all Members around unanimously agreeing to that!

Monday, July 20, 2015

'THINKING RIGHT' WOULD SURE HELP HERE A FEW TIMES!


The youth of today's world no doubt should ponder for a while over the basic Truths in life in respect how they were cared and brought up in their lives at their tender age.. 

It was just the age when the health was delicate, personality was almost nothing and capabilities were just the primary ones meant for protecting thru' reflexes of withdrawing / getting off from the threats around.. Indirectly to say, every grown up person of today was invariably like that at that point of time when they were young..

But all along that period of total helplessness, their today's parents were alone by their side very much ready to take full care of them and really did that without almost an exception any where around.. 

Thus, it becomes truly a right approach with any one around with living parents by their side to constantly ponder over the Message here which if they make a genuine search would sure find in their hearts too very easily.. The gist of the Message runs thus.. 

  • 'My mother had given me truly the so called 'My Personality' in my life which is simultaneously accepted in the Society and on occasions appreciated too without which I would have been either 'Nothing' in my life or would have been such an 'Unacceptable' or the most 'Hated' Personality in my vicinity.. Here, my mother alone had given me this 'True Identification' to me in this world..
  • My father had constantly protected me from the so called influence of the 'Underworld' when I was totally helpless and had taught me the 'Way of making my Livelihood' here so that later in my life I could earn a living through the same and further protect myself from the 'Bad' for the rest of my life.. Here, my father had truly protected 'The Very Identification' given to me by my mother..
  • Thus my Parents both together had done the 'Greatest Service' to me in my life even though a few times the tasks were interchanged between them in the Roles.. I should ever be ready to thank them immensely for all this and never feel that they had not done a few undone things to me which truly speaking are really of minor and insignificant nature and most of the time they are out my wish alone without any solid back of a true requirement existing there.. Both the Parents together had truly saved me from 'the greatest fear' and 'the biggest pain' of life which Service if I see in depth, can never repay at any point of time in my life!' 
The young and active around should make a strong note of this Message and forever stop showing the later acquired physical and mental strengths on their weakened parents through their age and thus stop neglecting them/treating them indifferently at any point of time in their old age.. 

Equally, they should ever remember that all these elderly men and women around too have a fundamental right of expressing themselves in their own dignified way and that doing a few times even if seem to be interfering with the Care Taker's freedom, that should simply be managed towards a practical solution alone without causing any basic hurt to these elderly at any point of time in their life!

And this attitude sure had to be adapted by the young and capable of today for the betterment of all as in that very approach, they are equally setting the good examples of selfless Service in front of their own fast growing children who tomorrow, in the coming up years would definitely become better individuals ready to render a similar Service towards them too in their own difficult days!

Friday, July 17, 2015

THE 'HIDDEN TRUTH' OUT!

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Thursday, July 16, 2015

A 'UNIQUE SKILL'.. MORE OF A PERSONALITY AND YEARS OF EXPERIENCE!


  • As a Beginner and Learner, when he sat for the first time in the driver’s seat of the Driving School Car with his Instructor by the side and was directed to go straight into dense traffic, there was just a single thought in him all the time, “God!  How are these people around me doing this task so easily?”
  • After a few Driving Classes, on a day as he changed the Gear making a cutting sound, he was straight away commented upon by the Instructor with a stern look, “Oh! The car is gone…. Why are you so nervous? Why don’t you press the Clutch Pedal firmly before attempting the Gear change?”
  • During the same time again one day, when he tried practicing in his own car, it was all together a new tension in him which in no time climaxed when he failed to ‘Pull’ through a steep up slope thus holding up the traffic behind with funny comments, advices and help pouring in from all directions all of which he had to bear for a while..
  • Soon as a Certified Driver, on a day when he unexpectedly drove his car into a narrow Lane creating a traffic jam and was squarely shouted upon for causing such a hold up on the road, a lesson was quickly learnt that experience in driving is different from just having the Permission to drive!
  • With almost a year’s constant driving and having become confident in that line, on a day when he squarely failed a planned overtaking of another moving car in front instantly attracted the attention of drivers of on coming vehicles with one of them shouting aloud, “Why don't you sit at home instead of coming on to road and troubling us?”
  • Next few years having passed with no incidents on the road and out of a pride because of that when commented a bit on a beginner who made a mistake and came right in front of his car, some one was heard saying from behind, “That boy is a Learner…. As an experienced man, were you sleeping?”
  • And that seemed to be the end of all such ordeals as years rolled on smoothly and that had its own thumps-up too on a day when he parked his vehicle to a side of a congested narrow road for a small work and the next moment a young driver driving through commented on his parking, gave back the reply, “What’s the problem? A vehicle almost double the width of your car can easily pass through the passage.. I think, you need a few more driving lessons!” and instructed him on how to pass through such spaces without expecting the other man yield an inch!
  • Soon he was a seasoned driver of late forties ever having a basic responsibility of safety on road in his mind which in no time climaxed to the firm belief within..
"Driving is just an Art and each individual responds to it in his/her own style and each is correct in his/her own way except a few.. It's a complex psychology of an individual developed through years of experience being constantly on road with the vehicle forever keeping an eye on safety aspects with an equal pro-thinking in the mind, ‘All along, there is sure a man around who can unexpectedly do a costly mistake here and let me be on watch for that too!'”

Wednesday, July 15, 2015


HUMANITY 'REDEFINED!'

A young man and 3 elderly men happened to travel on a rainy day evening peak hours by taxi on sharing basis to return to a central place from where they could easily reach their homes.

At the end of the journey which was truly too tedious and tiresome before getting down, the young man with a beaming face tipped the driver extra saying,

  • “You did a commendable job. In such heavy rain and traffic conditions, you waded and pushed through and brought me back home the fastest after my tedious Office Work which I never imagined to happen in such a pouring rain. 
Here as a fellow human, I decided to do my bit. Hope this extra money from me will make you happy!”

The 3 elderly men nodded their heads to what the young man said and equally tipped the driver but strangely the first two 2 and 3 times respectively of what the young man gave and the fourth one some more money added to the 3 times the tip.. After alighting the taxi, the 4 men walked some distance together and before departing, the young man asked, 


"Sir! I happened to notice all 3 of you giving different tips to the driver. I wish to know what made each one of you do this."

The first elderly man said with an emotion clearly seen on his face,

  • “I may be a well off man with all facilities at my disposal but at this point of time none could come to my rescue and as you see I am aged. He really helped me move from the place from where there was no way of coming back easily for me in this rain and traffic at the back of my age related problems else I would have definitely suffered. Now I can easily reach my home and relax. 
Here as a fellow human, I decided to do my bit in my condition.That's why I gave him the additional tip!”

The second elderly man looked at both and with a broad smile on his face said,

  • “I'm too aged but I was a Philanthropist all along in my life. Here as I see, I may be aged no doubt but the driver too is aged. He did such a difficult job in his age to help out a man like me to reach my home easily myself in the same age having no need to face such hardships this moment. 
Here as a fellow human I decided to do my bit at my own level. That's why I gave him this special additional tip!”

The other 2 agreed with the gentleman and 3 of them finally looked at the 3rd elderly man who paid the highest tip and asked him the reason to do so.

The elderly gentleman with all calmness on his face said,

  • "Dear all! Am too aged and was a Philanthropist all along my life. Nothing more than that. And so initially, I too felt like giving the driver 3 times only the tip.." 
he paused for a while and continued..
  • "When I thought thus, all of a sudden my Inner Voice reminded me, 
  • 'You are calculating the money to be paid and giving that with a reason attached but as a True Fellow Human have you gifted the driver spontaneously from your end when an occasion comes up like this?' 
  • So I just added up the small money left in my hand without counting which I could easily part with without a big burden on me and gave away all that.. 
And here as a Fellow Human, I decided to do my bit as I sincerely feel that the driver just deserves to receive all this from me at this moment!"


‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend,

an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’

Keywords: humanity, rainy day

Saturday, July 4, 2015

THUS GOES A DAD'S 'ADVICE' TO HIS SON!

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Wednesday, July 1, 2015

THE 'FAKE MASTERS' AROUND!

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